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 Upset Commenter:  What you do in this group is pathetic.

Ignoring your wrong idea of love and faithfulness, well, your problem and loss, all you do here is denigrating/calumniating monogamy - in the groups page and in the anti-monogamy journals your group is overloaded with.
This is below the belt.
You won't earn respect by creating contempt of the opposite to what you want to glorify. I deeply disdain people like you for a reason.
You speak beautiful words about equality and respect yet you're putting monogamous majority down. Hipocrits.

Sorry for poor English, it's a foreign language to me. Just you made my blood boil.

 

 Me:  Sorry if I bother you, but maybe the people posting the art and the writing aren't really trying to put monogamy down, maybe they're just trying to express the struggles that come with being polyamorous in a mostly monogamous society. It's never easy being in the minority, being told that you're wrong and being discriminated against in a supposedly equal and free country is pretty painful, having to fight for equality and the ability to be who you are when every 'normal' person can do whatever they want and never have legal roadblocks to deal with. It's just hard and unfair and can spawn some pretty negative emotions about oneself. I haven't really looked through this page very much yet, so you may be completely right about negativity towards monogamy being expressed here, but judging by my life experiences and flat out traumas, people just need an outlet for their emotions and a place to meet and connect with people just like them in a world where they might have thought they were all alone, and that's probably what the creator of this group had in mind when they set it up in the first place, not to actively hurt others for being different than them. That would make them no better than the big high-up government person who runs around taking children away from polyamorous people. I can't exactly speak for a bunch of people that I don't know, but looking through the way I've seen people around me communicate, if you explain why you're offended to the people who offended you in a mature and calm manner, as I am doing now, they might try to make amends and be more vigilant about posting things that might upset someone in the first place, but then again, they might come back and be all offensive again, in which case, you know that you are the more mature person and have given them your input in hopes that they might take it in mind someday and act upon it. Thank you for reading through what I had to say, even if you don't agree with me. :)

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 I THINK I'M ABOUT TO THROW UP. I JUST TOLD MY GIRLFRIEND THAT I'M POLYAMORUS. SHE WAS FINE WITH IT BUT I'VE NEVER BEEN SO NERVOUS IN MY LIFE. I WAS LITERALLY GAGGING AS I SENT THE MESSAGE AND I STILL AM EVEN THOUGH I TOOK SOME TUMS.I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO OH GOD.

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Tipper by darkangel843
Tipper
I've been telling my school buddies about Tipper for a long time, and now I've finally got a picture. Tipper is missing her front left leg because she got attacked by some dogs. The vet originally said she'd be able to keep her leg, but it got infected so they had to amputate to save her life. I wish I could've gotten closer, but the Kindle made her nervous.
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 Upset Commenter:  What you do in this group is pathetic.

Ignoring your wrong idea of love and faithfulness, well, your problem and loss, all you do here is denigrating/calumniating monogamy - in the groups page and in the anti-monogamy journals your group is overloaded with.
This is below the belt.
You won't earn respect by creating contempt of the opposite to what you want to glorify. I deeply disdain people like you for a reason.
You speak beautiful words about equality and respect yet you're putting monogamous majority down. Hipocrits.

Sorry for poor English, it's a foreign language to me. Just you made my blood boil.

 

 Me:  Sorry if I bother you, but maybe the people posting the art and the writing aren't really trying to put monogamy down, maybe they're just trying to express the struggles that come with being polyamorous in a mostly monogamous society. It's never easy being in the minority, being told that you're wrong and being discriminated against in a supposedly equal and free country is pretty painful, having to fight for equality and the ability to be who you are when every 'normal' person can do whatever they want and never have legal roadblocks to deal with. It's just hard and unfair and can spawn some pretty negative emotions about oneself. I haven't really looked through this page very much yet, so you may be completely right about negativity towards monogamy being expressed here, but judging by my life experiences and flat out traumas, people just need an outlet for their emotions and a place to meet and connect with people just like them in a world where they might have thought they were all alone, and that's probably what the creator of this group had in mind when they set it up in the first place, not to actively hurt others for being different than them. That would make them no better than the big high-up government person who runs around taking children away from polyamorous people. I can't exactly speak for a bunch of people that I don't know, but looking through the way I've seen people around me communicate, if you explain why you're offended to the people who offended you in a mature and calm manner, as I am doing now, they might try to make amends and be more vigilant about posting things that might upset someone in the first place, but then again, they might come back and be all offensive again, in which case, you know that you are the more mature person and have given them your input in hopes that they might take it in mind someday and act upon it. Thank you for reading through what I had to say, even if you don't agree with me. :)

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:iconpurrloin77:
Purrloin77 Featured By Owner Jun 18, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
thanks for the fav!
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darkangel843 Featured By Owner Jun 19, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
No prob!
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lMMUNIZE Featured By Owner May 10, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Hey, it's the Kaiba from the library 
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darkangel843 Featured By Owner May 13, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
Hi. What's up?
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lMMUNIZE Featured By Owner May 13, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
not much. hows it been going? 
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darkangel843 Featured By Owner May 15, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
I got a nasty virus yesterday, but I'm better now. Other than that, nothing much here either.
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Monostache Featured By Owner Mar 28, 2014  Hobbyist Artisan Crafter
Thanks so much for adding my Princess Luna and Celestia earrings to your favorites! Please consider liking my Facebook, where I share lots of stuff about my crafts, art, cosplay, and general tips/thoughts. I also have lots of giveaways, the next one happening once I get 1000 likes on the Facebook page. : ) www.facebook.com/Tofustache

Also, to celebrate my upcoming wedding, I'm having a promotion for 5% off all orders with use of the coupon code WEDDINGBELLS when checking out in my shop~ : )
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sealand40041 Featured By Owner Jan 11, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
Happy (early) birthday
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darkangel843 Featured By Owner Jan 12, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
Thanks!
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sealand40041 Featured By Owner Jan 12, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
no problem...
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